d4m10n wrote:
Your attempts at shaming me for arguing about tone are hysterically hypocritical. You'd prefer an unrestrained celebration of personal attacks, and I'd prefer focusing on hypocrisy and bad ideas, but let's not pretend that we aren't doing the same thing here by trying to persuade the other posters that one approach is distinctly preferable to the other.
Seriously? That is what you got from my response?
I was not trying to "shame" you, I was holding up a mirror. I don't do the shaming thing, I have plenty of other weapons to play with.
You'd prefer an unrestrained celebration of personal attacks,
Did you even read what I wrote? Apparently not. I don't attack uncontrollable physical characteristics if that is what you meant by "personal attacks", however, I don't make those decisions for others. I'm not their mother, nor their headmistress, and they are not children, even when you get on your superiority power kick and speak to them as if you were disciplining schoolchildren.
but let's not pretend that we aren't doing the same thing here by trying to persuade the other posters that one approach is distinctly preferable to the other.
I don't join a site and tell them what they are doing wrong, not only did you do that immediately upon joining here, you have been the Token Tone Troll on a regular basis ever since you arrived. You are the one in a place that does not suit you, and instead of finding another place, or beginning you own, or making the decision that you will stay and accept the way this place has been since the beginning, that it is worth the sacrifice. Those are all options for adults.
You stay here, and complain and criticise and attempt to shame behaviour that you do not approve of.
How am I "doing the same thing" by responding to your advert for attention (positive, or negative, it does not matter as long as no one ignores you) perhaps three times since you arrived here.
trying to persuade the other posters
No, Damion, that is what
you do, poorly. I do not try and persuade other members to be polite, or not. I even gave examples of when others post things I would not,
and my reaction to that, You must have missed that because you can't imagine letting others make their own decisions without the need to tell them how wrong they are.
and again, I speak for myself.
You are a drama queen.
You don't like it here? Get the fuck off the site
You like it enough to put up with what you disagree with? Great, then shut the fuck up about how it isn't what you think it should be.
or put forth a calm, rational post regarding
your reasons for your decision, and people will either agree or disagree, engage you in a conversation, or ignore you.
This is what being an adult is like.
Whinging, attempting to shame, deliberately antagonizing, demanding adults behave the way you want them to, posting nearly identical whiny accusations about how your style of engagement is superior, actually believing that the Pit will bow to your wishes, and having no regard for the original members including Abbie, and also a majority in being quite content with the way things are, and have always been.
All of your behaviour, which I described above, is a transparent attempt at getting attention. You are not trying to persuade anyone, you are attempting to rally those who already agree with you.
I am encouraging you. Create the fucking site you want. I won't be joining to whine about how I think it should be different, I won't be lecturing adults regarding their behaviour, I won't be posting the same accusations over and over again, and I won't be desperate for attention.
I will either participate in a polite forum opposing the Baboons, politely, or I will not participate.
It's really very simple. If you are not happy here, no one is forcing you to stay.
and I would have a go at your behaviour, even if I agreed with your perspective. Let that sink in a while.