Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Mykeru wrote:It seems Renee won't give me a slot (giggity) on Skepti-Schism -- even though I was the one that suggested the all-important hyphen which just makes it, if you ask me -- unless I ask her really, really nicely.
Fuck you. Fuck you into the ground. That's one little dash amidst the twelve fucking letters I put together for the name. It's like you just put the fucking swoosh under my brand name 'Nike'. Here's $35, now fuck off.

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Aneris wrote:
Lsuoma wrote:
Aneris wrote: I don't see the issue. So she does Cosplay. And?*

*It's not that Rebecca Watson is an academic with some gravitas. Even if she was. I don't think that Feynman would disapprove that.
When did dressing-up games become "Cosplay"?
I thought this was at a con, and pop culture (Aliens?). Not witches at halloween. That would be our costume.
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Pitchguest wrote: I was just stunned at that bit of cognitive dissonance. I don't really care if she can get laid whenever she likes; if she can, good for her. But many people sure can't and to say that this bit of, hm, shall we say 'privilege'? - hasn't got anything to do with her being a nominately attractive woman, she's either deluded, or she thinks her audience are idiots. Also, that sentence, "The fact that I can get them is absolutely useless to me." If only everyone had it that simple.
Well, I see where you are coming from and perhaps in time with a little honest introspection she might also.

I kind of do not want to criticize her too harshly because, well, I am a bit embarrassed to admit that I think I understand only too well where she is coming from, and the bottom line is I am not in a position to cast the first stone.

Judge not lest ye be judged and all that.

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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KenD wrote:The idea that women are victims who need to be saved from men's "beastly lust"* is definitely a throwback to a Victorian view of the sexes.
I think the opposition to displays of sexuality by sex-negative, but heterosexual, feminists is ultimately driven by mate competition instincts.

They don't trust their male partners not to cheat with the every other woman they see, so all sexual displays by other women must be stamped in order to prevent men from seeing other women to cheat with.

This interpretation explains why feminists of this stripe hate public displays of sexuality by other women (which they consider to be objectification) but see nothing wrong with displaying their own sexuality.

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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On our latest episode of the Full Frontal Zealotry podcast we had Reap Paden along for the ride, and concludes with an interview with Justin Vacula:
http://everdense.com/ffz/archives/251

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I think I posted the first photo here of the Prometheus costume, not knowing that's what it was but instead because seeing PZ Myers beaming next to Rebecca Watson who has just given birth to a squid isn't something you see every day.

It's clear that I'm out of the loop on certain aspects of modern culture. Hadn't heard of Prometheus-the-movie, and hadn't heard of that non-PC card game Lousy Canuck was tweeting about.

No idea why a C-section incision + appears-to-be-term "baby" gets called an "abortion" (that's probably in the movie). At any rate, yes, some people (woman or man) who have had a stillborn child, or a child with significant congenital anomalies, particularly of limbs and/or digits, might be significantly triggered by Watson's costume. Like my friend who had a baby born with anencephaly, for example.

But: avoiding triggering people has not been a focus (AFAIK) of hers or Skepchick's, or FtB's (or Laden's) - even though it's a big deal at the atheism plus forum (not sure about squid babies & C-section incisions, but all sorts of other things are labeled as potentially triggering).

Finally, as has been mentioned before, it seems like a fairly small % of them & their commenters have had term pregnancies, much less kids, for what that's worth. Maybe that makes it less likely any of their co-partiers would be triggered by bad pregnancy outcomes, but also may make it less likely that they'd recognize the potential for such a reaction.

But, whatever - it was their party.

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Mykeru wrote: Well, it sure takes its sweet-ass time sending an email
That's surprising, considering Renee's server has a dual-core processor.

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Guest wrote:
Tribble wrote:
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I am amazed, or I should say revolted, in so many ways... Does she have no self-respect? Or is she just completely unaware?
Yeah. Next thing you know they'll see a woman who's cosplaying in a rather mild outfit and get all shocked and disgusted, because OMG bare midriff + extra pounds = "I'M REVOLTED".
I just can't help but wonder how Becky would react if fat, shirtless, sloppy drunk guys started partying in her personal space. Come on, gross is gross.

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Skep tickle wrote:I think I posted the first photo here of the Prometheus costume, not knowing that's what it was but instead because seeing PZ Myers beaming next to Rebecca Watson who has just given birth to a squid isn't something you see every day.

It's clear that I'm out of the loop on certain aspects of modern culture. Hadn't heard of Prometheus-the-movie, and hadn't heard of that non-PC card game Lousy Canuck was tweeting about.

No idea why a C-section incision + appears-to-be-term "baby" gets called an "abortion" (that's probably in the movie).
If you care, here's the relevant clip. (Spoiler for anyone who hasn't seen the movie but might want to.)

[youtube]YqGnc6ex2YY[/youtube]

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Satan wrote:
KenD wrote:The idea that women are victims who need to be saved from men's "beastly lust"* is definitely a throwback to a Victorian view of the sexes.
I think the opposition to displays of sexuality by sex-negative, but heterosexual, feminists is ultimately driven by mate competition instincts.

They don't trust their male partners not to cheat with the every other woman they see, so all sexual displays by other women must be stamped in order to prevent men from seeing other women to cheat with.

This interpretation explains why feminists of this stripe hate public displays of sexuality by other women (which they consider to be objectification) but see nothing wrong with displaying their own sexuality.
I dont find the hypocrisy surprising. Its about maximising ones own position while cutting your competition off at the knees, as it were. Its one thing that makes me wary of sex positive feminists, that the positivism refers to their own benefits while being happy to apply different standards, usually to males, but also females.

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Mykeru wrote:
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Mykeru wrote:It seems Renee won't give me a slot (giggity) on Skepti-Schism -- even though I was the one that suggested the all-important hyphen which just makes it, if you ask me -- unless I ask her really, really nicely.

As I am constitutionally incapable of being really nice, let alone really, really nice, this presents something of a poser for me.

Can anyone draft a "really really nice" request to fucking Hendricks that doesn't fall into the faux pas I did, what with the use of the phrases "Jello Shot cum-dumpster" and "Even if I asked you nicely, like you'd remember"?

Thanks in advance and fuck off.
Wait, what? Um, you can create it right here: http://skeptischism.com/wp-signup.php.

Silly Mykeru!
Well, it sure takes its sweet-ass time sending an email
Hmm. Ok, I need to beat the shit out of my mail server, it seems. Just send me an email at 1webdeveloper at gmail dot com with what you want for a user name and site name and I'll manually set it up.

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Lsuoma wrote:
Aneris wrote: I don't see the issue. So she does Cosplay. And?*

*It's not that Rebecca Watson is an academic with some gravitas. Even if she was. I don't think that Feynman would disapprove that.
When did dressing-up games become "Cosplay"?
I think I first heard it called that in....2002 or so.

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EdwardGemmer wrote:http://skeptischism.com/bdc/2013/07/09/ ... hendricks/

Renee answers all questions
BAAAHAHAHAAHAHAA. Brilliant!

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ReneeHendricks wrote:
Mykeru wrote:
ReneeHendricks wrote:
Wait, what? Um, you can create it right here: http://skeptischism.com/wp-signup.php.

Silly Mykeru!
Well, it sure takes its sweet-ass time sending an email
Hmm. Ok, I need to beat the shit out of my mail server, it seems. Just send me an email at 1webdeveloper at gmail dot com with what you want for a user name and site name and I'll manually set it up.
Stupid question, but since it is one of those "bite you in the ass because it's so simple" things, does your mailserver's DNS check out forwards and backwards? It's the name lookup from IP address going boggy that trips a lot of spam filters

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Those all-important conference "harassment policies"...

In 2012, there was the SkepchickCON policy, then 2 weeks later (based on feedback from readers and the CONvergence staff), that was superceded by the SkepchickCON policy (New and Improved), which included keeping the first 2 lines of the original policy but removing some of the subsequent stuff:
SkepchickCON is dedicated to providing a safe and harassment-free conference experience for everyone regardless of gender, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, body size, race or religion. We do not tolerate harassment of anyone in attendance in any form. Attendees found to be violating this harassment policy may be sanctioned or expelled from the conference [without a refund] at the discretion of the convention organizers. ...

... If a participant engages in harassing behavior, SkepchickCON organizers may take any action they deem appropriate, including warning the offender or expulsion from the CON [with no refund]. If you are being harassed, notice that someone else is being harassed, or have any other concerns, please contact a SkepchickCON or FTB organizer. ...
What about 2013?

SkepchickCON policy...nothing found, in my search.

CONvergence policy (harassment section quoted here in full, with bolding added by me; there's more at the link, about service animals etc):
Harassment

CONvergence is dedicated to providing a safe and comfortable convention experience for everyone. Harassment of any kind, including physical assault, battery, deliberate intimidation, stalking, or unwelcome physical attentions, will not be tolerated. If people tell you “no” or to leave them alone, your business with them is done.

Leave them alone. Do not follow them or attempt to disrupt their convention experience in any way. If you continue to attempt to have contact with those people, you may be removed from the premises.

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CONvergence is not responsible for solving any interpersonal problems that may arise between individual members. In general, we can take no action to prevent a person from attending the convention unless that person has made a specific and credible threat toward the convention itself. If you feel that a threat exists against your person, we advise you to seek a restraining order against the individual in question and to involve the host hotel itself (security staff specifically) and the municipal police department in advance of the convention; otherwise, we recommend simply avoiding that individual.

If that individual stalks, harasses, or attempts to assault you at the convention itself, you may report that individual to a member of Operations (they will report it to the hotel’s security staff who will get the police involved if necessary) or you may report it to hotel security directly, and the appropriate action will be taken. Conversely, any attempt to have an innocent person removed from the convention by falsely accusing him or her of threats will be itself treated as an act of harassment and will be dealt with appropriately. The responsibility for settling interpersonal disputes lies solely with the individuals involved, and CONvergence will not tolerate being used as a leveraging point in such disputes.
Wonder whether there was something specific that led to CONvergence putting its foot down, and to the absence of a specific (public, anyway) SkepchickCON policy this year.

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welch wrote:
EdwardGemmer wrote:http://skeptischism.com/bdc/2013/07/09/ ... hendricks/

Renee answers all questions
BAAAHAHAHAAHAHAA. Brilliant!
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Gumby wrote:
Mykeru wrote: Well, it sure takes its sweet-ass time sending an email
That's surprising, considering Renee's server has a dual-core processor.

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view4/332852 ... heel-o.gif
No email yet.

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ReneeHendricks wrote:
Hmm. Ok, I need to beat the shit out of my mail server, it seems. Just send me an email at 1webdeveloper at gmail dot com with what you want for a user name and site name and I'll manually set it up.
Got it, I'll be up to my ass in Wordpress back end for the next couple days

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I sometimes feel sorry for Meyers. He must be weeping into his Metamucil realizing that he has gone from a commentariat which, while always full of cunts, could depend upon deliberate and accidental "trolls" to liven it up, to how it is now. The screencap below has changed little over the past few hours. As a biologist, Meyers should realize that blood needs to be replaced every so often in order to function.

http://i.imgur.com/CwQAoMJ.png

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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AndrewV69 wrote:
Pitchguest wrote: I was just stunned at that bit of cognitive dissonance. I don't really care if she can get laid whenever she likes; if she can, good for her. But many people sure can't and to say that this bit of, hm, shall we say 'privilege'? - hasn't got anything to do with her being a nominately attractive woman, she's either deluded, or she thinks her audience are idiots. Also, that sentence, "The fact that I can get them is absolutely useless to me." If only everyone had it that simple.
Well, I see where you are coming from and perhaps in time with a little honest introspection she might also.

I kind of do not want to criticize her too harshly because, well, I am a bit embarrassed to admit that I think I understand only too well where she is coming from, and the bottom line is I am not in a position to cast the first stone.

Judge not lest ye be judged and all that.
You both might be reading her wrong. For one thing she’s indicated that she’s “come out as queer” – which might be the basis for her “absolutely useless to me” comment. Interesting details here – seems she’s packed a lot – good and bad – into her last four years of schooling. And while I’ve disagreed with her posts on several points – sociological definitions, “The Patriarchy”, Lindsay’s “apology”, and “gendered” insults for several, I have to concede she’s got guts and spirit: one can forgive the young everything except their youth ….

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Adam Lee obviously out during recess is tweeting away giving us all an example of how to behave like mature intelligent adults. That dude is just sad
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Just listened to ReapSow/ally fog.

Wow. "I have no dog in this fight and I don't know enough to comment but your side needs to back off." Fucking nob.

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Post by Wonderist »

Hehe. :lol:

(Anyone know what the heck that "Lorem ipsum dolor est..." text actually means, if anything?)

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JackRayner wrote:*groan*

How many more times do we have to go through this BS?

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x17/ ... 9b66a9.png

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You know, I don't even have a problem with some of that shit, but that's not the point. None of that has anything to do with not believing in/rejecting deities . Why do atheists keep trying to play this "We're moral/more moral!" game?

[And no, I don't give two shits if it's a quote from so-and-so. And don't even get me started on how stupid I think this "monument" is.]
Depends, I think, on precisely what you mean by “has anything to do with …” While conquering disease, banishing poverty, and eliminating war don’t seem to be intrinsic to atheism, it seems to me that one’s belief in or perspective on it is likely to have some influence on how one addresses those problems. Reminds me of a quote of Nietzsche in Michel Onfray’s In Defense of Atheism:
Nietzsche wrote:The concept of “God” invented as a counter-example of life – everything harmful, poisonous, slanderous, the whole hostility unto death against life synthesized in this concept in a gruesome unity! The concept of the “beyond”, the “true world” invented in order to devaluate the only world there is – in order to retain no goal, no reason, no task for our earthly reality! The concept of the “soul”, the “spirit”, finally even “immortal soul”, invented in order to despise the body, to make it sick …. In place of health, the “salvation of the soul” – that is a folie circulaire [manic-depressive insanity] between penitential convulsions and hysteria about redemption! [Ecce Homo]
What we think and feel about the concept of god seems to have a great deal of influence on both the “tasks for our earthly reality”, and on how we address them.

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welch wrote:
ReneeHendricks wrote:
Hmm. Ok, I need to beat the shit out of my mail server, it seems. Just send me an email at 1webdeveloper at gmail dot com with what you want for a user name and site name and I'll manually set it up.
Stupid question, but since it is one of those "bite you in the ass because it's so simple" things, does your mailserver's DNS check out forwards and backwards? It's the name lookup from IP address going boggy that trips a lot of spam filters
Not sure - I'll have to check. Right now, my head is banging and this headache is creeping down into my face. I think I'm done for the day.

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Reap wrote:Adam Lee obviously out during recess is tweeting away giving us all an example of how to behave like mature intelligent adults. That dude is just sad
Reap, that's a fucking terrible phrase you've got in your avatar. Is it a Glenn Beck quote?

"Truth. The new hate speech."

Maybe next time you could have:

"POLITICAL CORRECTNESS: IT'S GONE MAD"

"GET TO THE BACK OF THE BUS, NEGRO"

or

"GOLD! BUY GOLD! I'M BUYING GOLD-RECYCLING COMPANIES, BUT YOU SHOULD BUY GOLD!"

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Steersman wrote:
JackRayner wrote:*groan*

How many more times do we have to go through this BS?

http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x17/ ... 9b66a9.png

Source

You know, I don't even have a problem with some of that shit, but that's not the point. None of that has anything to do with not believing in/rejecting deities . Why do atheists keep trying to play this "We're moral/more moral!" game?

[And no, I don't give two shits if it's a quote from so-and-so. And don't even get me started on how stupid I think this "monument" is.]
Depends, I think, on precisely what you mean by “has anything to do with …” While conquering disease, banishing poverty, and eliminating war don’t seem to be intrinsic to atheism, it seems to me that one’s belief in or perspective on it is likely to have some influence on how one addresses those problems. Reminds me of a quote of Nietzsche in Michel Onfray’s In Defense of Atheism:
Nietzsche wrote:The concept of “God” invented as a counter-example of life – everything harmful, poisonous, slanderous, the whole hostility unto death against life synthesized in this concept in a gruesome unity! The concept of the “beyond”, the “true world” invented in order to devaluate the only world there is – in order to retain no goal, no reason, no task for our earthly reality! The concept of the “soul”, the “spirit”, finally even “immortal soul”, invented in order to despise the body, to make it sick …. In place of health, the “salvation of the soul” – that is a folie circulaire [manic-depressive insanity] between penitential convulsions and hysteria about redemption! [Ecce Homo]
What we think and feel about the concept of god seems to have a great deal of influence on both the “tasks for our earthly reality”, and on how we address them.
Maybe.

*Insert any of the many atheists [actual ones, not Hitler] that theist often invoke when trying to argue that atheism leads to immoral behavior*

There are atheists that believe in all sorts of nonsense. I think any atheist not in love with the smell of their own farts can recognize that. The only thing I'm sure of* when someone claims they're an atheist, is that they don't believe in god. That's it. On average atheists are supposedly more educated, but having an education doesn't mean you're smarter [as we've seen, plenty of atheists are shit skeptics]. The same goes with being more "moral", and whatever other bullshit atheists bring up to make themselves feel superior...

*That's not 100%, because I know "atheist" who are really still believers, but angry at "god's" unjust ways. It's like the women who become "atheists" when they turn Feminist because "god" is a big, patriarchal meanie. Hahaha. Sorry, but that's not what I'd define as atheism...

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I give her props on the costume. What's more; I'll even say that when they do movie reviews on SGU is one of the only times I kind of like her.

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welch wrote: Oh Loftus replied. He ignored Justin's reply and kept on his ... "we're at least still letting you reply here" shit.
Not me. I got banned for being a "silly willy." Or maybe it was for making that typo. Or ... or ...
He's afraid of me!

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Useless Lurker, I posted a reply to you here: viewtopic.php?p=108486#p108486

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Steersman wrote: seems she’s packed a lot – good and bad – into her last four years of schooling..... I have to concede she’s got guts and spirit: one can forgive the young everything except their youth ….
Miri is a progressive feminist atheist currently attending a Large Midwestern University and studying psychology. After that, she hopes to get a degree in social work and pursue a career that combines activism with counseling.
Or maybe one that combines saving dolphins with interior design. Or teaching dance therapy with running a sustainable farm. Just follow your dream, Miri! And remember, Starbucks is always hiring baristas.

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Steersman wrote: You both might be reading her wrong. For one thing she’s indicated that she’s “come out as queer” – which might be the basis for her “absolutely useless to me” comment. Interesting details here – seems she’s packed a lot – good and bad – into her last four years of schooling. And while I’ve disagreed with her posts on several points – sociological definitions, “The Patriarchy”, Lindsay’s “apology”, and “gendered” insults for several, I have to concede she’s got guts and spirit:
Look Steers, perhaps I am misreading her. However, I have been propositioned twice by gay guys and it actually did not make any difference as to my reaction. It was similar to when I turned down women.

The reasons I turned those guys down is because I was not interested as guys do nothing for me. With the women it was usually because of what I saw as a mismatch in expectations, or just as common, I did not want to get involved in their personal drama, and once because I was tired.

Now as someone who has been turned down myself 1,000 and eleventy million times at a minimum, I quite often tried to let them all down gently. But what I noticed was the pleasure I felt while doing so. The feeling of power gained by withholding something that someone else wanted badly enough to ask for.

So perhaps I am projecting. Perhaps she really mean everything she says when she says things like this:
The third reason is that, in my experience, many men who claim to like women who show initiative don’t really mean it–and, more to the point–they don’t realize they don’t mean it. They say, “Oh, I’d love it if a girl asked me out.” “I’d love it if a girl asked me for sex.” But then it actually happens, and the caveats come out: “Well, sure, I like assertive women, but she’s just too aggressive.” “Well, I just felt intimidated when she asked me how I felt about her.” “Wow, she just seems really desperate and obsessed.” “I think she’s like, in love with me, and I’m not ready for that right now.”
Well, the last one sounds really close to what I have said in the past when turning down a woman. Do not get me wrong though, I have accepted propositions when it was in my estimation a good match in expectations. The times I went for it despite my reservations because I am so easily lead around by my dick, I had cause to regret it.

So yes, if she asked me I would quite possibly do her but only for a ONS. From what I "know" about her though, if I thought she wanted a LTR I would be full of "It's me, not you" and fuck off in all directions so fast, you would not see me for the dust in my wake.
Steersman wrote: one can forgive the young everything except their youth ….
Aye. Youth is wasted on the young.

(anyway, this is not really what Pitchguest and I were talking about. Reading what she wrote she did come across as speaking from privilege ... ).

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Apples wrote:
Steersman wrote:I’ve certainly found several occasions where “cunt” and “twat” are applicable – Zvan, Sally Strange, Jadehawk, CaitieCat for examples – but not too many for “nigger” or “faggot”. Although Crommunist and “Josh, Official Spokesgay” are pushing the limits.
:? Ruh-roh. I guess we'd better hope they don't cross your rubicon. I think you're missing the point, which you quoted below.
Maybe, but if so then maybe because it’s not easy to follow the inferences and logic and intentions associated with the various uses of different types of insults.
Apples wrote:
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Apples wrote:"Faggot" hasn't been used to refer to a particular unpleasant gay person among all those gay people you think are cool. These words have predominantly been used as tools of universal insult by bigots.
“Predominantly” is, I think, the nub of the matter. Seems there are more than a few misogynists who use gender insults in a universal context – “bitches ain’t shit” for example. Why context matters.
So ... you're not inclined to explicitly dispute my suggestion about historical and predominant usage in the case of racial and homophobic slurs, but you hint that you're tempted to use them when a black or gay person makes you really mad -- because ... why?
Good questions. But largely because of the analogy that I’ve spent some effort trying to elucidate here and various other places: “cunt” is to a charge of misogyny as “nigger” is to a charge of racist. That is, if “cunt” isn’t misogynistic then “nigger” isn’t racist. OR, if “nigger” is racist then “cunt” is misogynistic. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. And all of that is predicated, I think, on the fact, the common relationship – as described in some detail in the Wikipedia article above, that each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.

And while you might think that the “historical and predominant usage” is sufficient justification for concluding that those words are “racial and homophobic slurs” – i.e., applicable to all members of the classes blacks, and homosexuals – it seems to me that Myers, Benson, Carrier, and others use the same argument that you are using to anathematize not “nigger” and “faggot”, but “cunt”, “twat”, “prick”, and, in the view of at least some (to their credit), “asshole”. And, absent some credible reason from you why that argument of yours shouldn’t also apply to that last set of words of theirs, one is almost forced to conclude that you’re engaging in some special pleading, in “stacking the deck”.

As for my own temptations to use those words, that is largely because I go with the first of the two alternatives suggested by that analogy – i.e., “cunt” is not necessarily misogynistic AND “nigger” is not necessarily racist. And that is partly predicated on the fact that at least the “gendered” insults – cunt and prick in particular – express some significant and elevated degree of opprobrium that may have some use when some people cross one Rubicon or another. And while the analogous cases for “nigger” and “faggot” aren’t as clear-cut as are the gendered ones, I still think an argument could be made that they might be appropriate if some people were to claim more credit, more swag, for their race or sexual proclivities than was justified.
Apples wrote:As for something like "bitches ain't shit," I'd wonder how many times you've heard anyone say such a thing sincerely, outside of a rap song. I never have, other than as a mantra among Pharyngulites stuffing words into the mouths of strawmen.

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Seems to be a relatively popular phrase, although it is of course moot whether the song came first or whether it was merely the reflection of a common attitude prevalent at the time the song was written. Which then raises the question, which I failed to consider in my previous comment - mea culpa, as to whether that attitude is typically or commonly applied to all women or just to that percentage who happen to be, as the dictionary has it, “malicious, unpleasant, and selfish”. And while the former use could quite reasonably be construed as misogynistic, the latter only qualifies being rude and crude. But, as with the other insults, rude and crude may have some justifications, particularly where one wants to get the attention, fairly or not, of someone else who is being particularly obnoxious or difficult.

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AndrewV69 wrote:
Miri wrote:The third reason is that, in my experience, many men who claim to like women who show initiative don’t really mean it–and, more to the point–they don’t realize they don’t mean it. They say, “Oh, I’d love it if a girl asked me out.” “I’d love it if a girl asked me for sex.” But then it actually happens, and the caveats come out: “Well, sure, I like assertive women, but she’s just too aggressive.” “Well, I just felt intimidated when she asked me how I felt about her.” “Wow, she just seems really desperate and obsessed.” “I think she’s like, in love with me, and I’m not ready for that right now.”
[Off-topic, sorta]

I've actually seen that happen a few times. The most memorable instance involved a close friend. This really cute chick was spelling out that she wanted him, and it scared him off. They'd been in contact for a few days, and he just went ghost on her. I guess she was just too straightforward for his tastes...

...or, it might have been the fact that she followed him into the men's restroom while he was trying to take a piss, scared away some other guy that was in there, and then snorted some cocaine. Her face tattoo might have also aggravated matters. :think:

But, hey! Who cares about details?! :roll:

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Apples wrote: So ... you're not inclined to explicitly dispute my suggestion about historical and predominant usage in the case of racial and homophobic slurs, but you hint that you're tempted to use them when a black or gay person makes you really mad -- because ... why?
Steersman wrote: Good questions. But largely because of the analogy that I’ve spent some effort trying to elucidate here and various other places: “cunt” "cooze" is to a charge of misogyny as “nigger” is to a charge of racist. That is, if “cunt” "cooze" isn’t misogynistic then “nigger” isn’t racist. OR, if “nigger” is racist then “cunt” "cooze" is misogynistic. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. And all of that is predicated, I think, on the fact, the common relationship – as described in some detail in the Wikipedia article above, that each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
I fixed your argument so it would make sense to the likes of me.

The problem with the above is that it is cultural. While I may understand it froma North Americal perspective it does not feel right at all. I grew up hearing cunt and twat and quite frankly it does not resonate with me. I can accept cooze in the context, but never cunt.

(fucking imperialist trying to impose an alien cultural context on me is what it is.)

And my fee fees trumps your logic. So get knotted.

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JackRayner wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote:
Miri wrote:The third reason is that, in my experience, many men who claim to like women who show initiative don’t really mean it–and, more to the point–they don’t realize they don’t mean it. They say, “Oh, I’d love it if a girl asked me out.” “I’d love it if a girl asked me for sex.” But then it actually happens, and the caveats come out: “Well, sure, I like assertive women, but she’s just too aggressive.” “Well, I just felt intimidated when she asked me how I felt about her.” “Wow, she just seems really desperate and obsessed.” “I think she’s like, in love with me, and I’m not ready for that right now.”
[Off-topic, sorta]

I've actually seen that happen a few times. The most memorable instance involved a close friend. This really cute chick was spelling out that she wanted him, and it scared him off. They'd been in contact for a few days, and he just went ghost on her. I guess she was just too straightforward for his tastes...

...or, it might have been the fact that she followed him into the men's restroom while he was trying to take a piss, scared away some other guy that was in there, and then snorted some cocaine. Her face tattoo might have also aggravated matters. :think:

But, hey! Who cares about details?! :roll:
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JackRayner wrote:
Steersman wrote: <snip>
What we think and feel about the concept of god seems to have a great deal of influence on both the “tasks for our earthly reality”, and on how we address them.
There are atheists that believe in all sorts of nonsense.
No dispute there.
JackRayner wrote:I think any atheist not in love with the smell of their own farts can recognize that. The only thing I'm sure of* when someone claims they're an atheist, is that they don't believe in god. That's it. On average atheists are supposedly more educated, but having an education doesn't mean you're smarter [as we've seen, plenty of atheists are shit skeptics]. The same goes with being more "moral", and whatever other bullshit atheists bring up to make themselves feel superior...
That sense of feeling superior is, I think, the crux of the problem – a problem, at least – with the “New Atheism” which seems to be rather arrogant in its certainty. While I’m a long ways from believing in any anthropomorphic deity who guarantees all good boys and girls go to heaven – and the bad ones (at least the girls) go everywhere else, that conception still seems to be the limit of many of the New Atheist’s imaginations. And while I think the evidence is quite clear that some ideas are better than – superior to – others, I also think it is rather problematic, bad karma, to think that there aren’t any other ones that might be even better than those on tap.

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AndrewV69 wrote:
Apples wrote: So ... you're not inclined to explicitly dispute my suggestion about historical and predominant usage in the case of racial and homophobic slurs, but you hint that you're tempted to use them when a black or gay person makes you really mad -- because ... why?
Steersman wrote: Good questions. But largely because of the analogy that I’ve spent some effort trying to elucidate here and various other places: “cunt” "cooze" is to a charge of misogyny as “nigger” is to a charge of racist. That is, if “cunt” "cooze" isn’t misogynistic then “nigger” isn’t racist. OR, if “nigger” is racist then “cunt” "cooze" is misogynistic. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. And all of that is predicated, I think, on the fact, the common relationship – as described in some detail in the Wikipedia article above, that each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
I fixed your argument so it would make sense to the likes of me.

The problem with the above is that it is cultural. While I may understand it froma North Americal perspective it does not feel right at all. I grew up hearing cunt and twat and quite frankly it does not resonate with me. I can accept cooze in the context, but never cunt.

(fucking imperialist trying to impose an alien cultural context on me is what it is.)

And my fee fees trumps your logic. So get knotted.
:-) Glad you translated my argument into your own idiom, although you didn't clearly make the necessary choice even if the implication is that you'll go with the first case - i.e., neither misogynistic nor racist.

However, while it is maybe somewhat academic since you seemed to have picked A, I think the purpose or benefits of the analogy is that it strips out the cultural, the subjective aspects , the fee-fees, of the problem, leaving only the objective core. Presumably the objective or modus operandi of True Skeptics (tm) ....

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Steersman wrote::-) Glad you translated my argument into your own idiom, although you didn't clearly make the necessary choice even if the implication is that you'll go with the first case - i.e., neither misogynistic nor racist.

However, while it is maybe somewhat academic since you seemed to have picked A, I think the purpose or benefits of the analogy is that it strips out the cultural, the subjective aspects , the fee-fees, of the problem, leaving only the objective core. Presumably the objective or modus operandi of True Skeptics (tm) ....
Well my understanding is that "cooze" is North American and I can only recall hearing it once. I could be wrong though. In any event to me "cooze" is just as derogatory as "nigger" so I would not use either of them in that manner.

But "cunt"? You may as well tell me to stop saying "prick" or "dick". Not happening in my life time.

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AndrewV69 wrote:
JackRayner wrote: I've actually seen that happen a few times. The most memorable instance involved a close friend. This really cute chick was spelling out that she wanted him, and it scared him off. They'd been in contact for a few days, and he just went ghost on her. I guess she was just too straightforward for his tastes...

...or, it might have been the fact that she followed him into the men's restroom while he was trying to take a piss, scared away some other guy that was in there, and then snorted some cocaine. Her face tattoo might have also aggravated matters. :think:

But, hey! Who cares about details?! :roll:
Yumping Yimmy man! Da fuq? Bitch be crazy! You stick your dick in crazy you better not be coming to my place to hide out.

Bros before Hos is one thing but there are limits. You on your own.
Hm... I think "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a term I need to add to my repertoire. I can think of many missed opportunities to use it.

Another close friend of mine is currently on a long hiatus from relationships after the last emotionally abusive psycho he dated. I think I may have gone a bit too high brow with my attempts at shining a light on several of the obvious red flags I was seeing. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" might have done the job with its bluntness, and might have been more relevant to someone his age [19-20 years old then]...

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AndrewV69 wrote:
Steersman wrote::-) Glad you translated my argument into your own idiom, although you didn't clearly make the necessary choice even if the implication is that you'll go with the first case - i.e., neither misogynistic nor racist.

However, while it is maybe somewhat academic since you seemed to have picked A, I think the purpose or benefits of the analogy is that it strips out the cultural, the subjective aspects , the fee-fees, of the problem, leaving only the objective core. Presumably the objective or modus operandi of True Skeptics (tm) ....
Well my understanding is that "cooze" is North American and I can only recall hearing it once. I could be wrong though. In any event to me "cooze" is just as derogatory as "nigger" so I would not use either of them in that manner.

But "cunt"? You may as well tell me to stop saying "prick" or "dick". Not happening in my life time.
The question isn't whether "cunt" or "cooze" or "nigger" is derogatory, but whether they are each intrinsically derogatory of entire classes. My argument is that all of them are applicable to those entire classes OR/XOR none of them are. And I'll go with the latter - at least with the "necessarily" qualification.

You might want to take a close look at that section on analogies I linked to earlier.

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ThreeFlangedJavis wrote:
Jan Steen wrote:
Southern wrote: How many times Communism must fail spetacularly until people give up on it? Jeez. It's like Communists just don't care about corpses piling up or something.
As long as the corpses belong to the bourgeoisie there is nothing wrong with mass murder. They don't even need to actually belong to the bourgeoisie. Nobody knows what that means anyway. Applying the label is sufficient alibi to commit genocide. What is Maryam going to do with all those islamists in Iran? How about moderate muslims? What is the fate of other believers? What will happen to secularists who oppose the mass murder of believers? How about their children?

Better take them all out, to be sure. Isn't that right, comrade Namazie? Let's try to create yet another workers' paradise on a mountain of corpses. And after you have killed a few million of your bourgeois compatriots, an even meaner piece of shit than you will take over your Central Committee and torture you to death. There is only one way to prevent that from happening: purge the Central Committee. Kill them all. Chairwoman Mariam Namazie FTW.
I can't see any reason to conclude that Namazie is any more than a naive blowhard. How do you know that she wouldn't be shocked if the benevolent dictatorship she favours turned to murder? This seems way too speculative and is encroaching on PZ/Setar territory.
If you think that someone who is a member of the Central Committee of an official communist party is just a naive blowhard then you are an idiot.

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Tribble wrote:(daughter gets married this Saturday and shit is hectic
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Steersman wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote:
Steersman wrote::-) Glad you translated my argument into your own idiom, although you didn't clearly make the necessary choice even if the implication is that you'll go with the first case - i.e., neither misogynistic nor racist.

However, while it is maybe somewhat academic since you seemed to have picked A, I think the purpose or benefits of the analogy is that it strips out the cultural, the subjective aspects , the fee-fees, of the problem, leaving only the objective core. Presumably the objective or modus operandi of True Skeptics (tm) ....
Well my understanding is that "cooze" is North American and I can only recall hearing it once. I could be wrong though. In any event to me "cooze" is just as derogatory as "nigger" so I would not use either of them in that manner.

But "cunt"? You may as well tell me to stop saying "prick" or "dick". Not happening in my life time.
The question isn't whether "cunt" or "cooze" or "nigger" is derogatory, but whether they are each intrinsically derogatory of entire classes. My argument is that all of them are applicable to those entire classes OR/XOR none of them are. And I'll go with the latter - at least with the "necessarily" qualification.

You might want to take a close look at that section on analogies I linked to earlier.
Sorry Steers, but your subtle point is lost on me. I am just going to go with this:
Steersman wrote: each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
That works for me.

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AndrewV69 wrote: <snip>
Sorry Steers, but your subtle point is lost on me. I am just going to go with this:
Steersman wrote: each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
That works for me.
Ok, but if that works for you, that, apparently, insulting some black person with the epithet "nigger" is insulting all blacks then why doesn't that work for "cunt", that calling one woman a cunt isn't calling every woman a cunt?

That is the meaning of "analogous" - the same principle, the same process, the same relationship is in play in each case. While the neurophysiology of insults - how they work, what physiological processes of pain and pleasure are triggered on hearing or speaking them - may be rather obscure, I don't think it wise or helpful - or skeptical - to throw up our hands and say "cultural biases, cultural imperialism" and to walk away from the problem. And the best way, I think, that I can see, of addressing the problem is through analogies.

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Apples wrote:But - but - he has a killer O Soto Gari!!! - viewtopic.php?p=80977#p80977

http://i.imgur.com/niozG2X.jpg

Also he has heard of a remarkable thing called the 'Socratic method.' That's makes him at least Senpai, if not Sensei.
I would only ever claim to be a practitioner, not an authority. The judo metaphor was about 'using their force against them', not about being some sort of authority.

The only 'authority' I care about is whether something works or not. If others can show/explain/demonstrate different or better techniques, I'm always interested in learning. It doesn't matter who from, it only matters to me if it works.

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AndrewV69 wrote: <snip>
Steersman wrote: one can forgive the young everything except their youth ….
Aye. Youth is wasted on the young.
Indeed. Although it is maybe ironic that we have to spend our youth to find that out.
AndrewV69 wrote: (anyway, this is not really what Pitchguest and I were talking about. Reading what she wrote she did come across as speaking from privilege ... ).)
Maybe my radar is miscalibrated, but I think that framing what Miri is saying in the context of privilege is going about analyzing it the wrong way. For one thing, my impression was that most people here aren’t particularly enthused or supportive of the concept in the first place. While one might reasonably argue with her that, for instance, she should shut up and listen to those less “privileged” on the axis on which she has that particular advantage, I think that is going to be a tough sale – you or Pitchguest might wish to broach the subject with her and see how far it flies. For instance, a reasonable response from her might be “all’s fair in love and war”; what alternative would you suggest – burkas?

Seems there are a great many problems associated with using the concept of privilege – “a special advantage, immunity, permission, right, or benefit granted to or enjoyed by an individual, class, or caste” – in any but the most narrowly constrained applications – civil rights for example. For some problematic cases you might be interested in these sources, a post by Jeremy Stangroom, an article in The New Statesman, and an editorial in a group of largely women’s magazines.

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Steersman wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote: <snip>
Sorry Steers, but your subtle point is lost on me. I am just going to go with this:
Steersman wrote: each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
That works for me.
Ok, but if that works for you, that, apparently, insulting some black person with the epithet "nigger" is insulting all blacks then why doesn't that work for "cunt", that calling one woman a cunt isn't calling every woman a cunt?

That is the meaning of "analogous" - the same principle, the same process, the same relationship is in play in each case. While the neurophysiology of insults - how they work, what physiological processes of pain and pleasure are triggered on hearing or speaking them - may be rather obscure, I don't think it wise or helpful - or skeptical - to throw up our hands and say "cultural biases, cultural imperialism" and to walk away from the problem. And the best way, I think, that I can see, of addressing the problem is through analogies.
D'Oh! Ok Now I see what you are getting it.

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welch wrote: <snip>
Steersman may be pedantic as fuck, but at least, at least he gets to the motherfucking point SOMEWHERE in his fucking verbiage. Compared to you, he is Hemingway winning a bet about how short he can make a story.
Thanks. I think. :-)

At least I generally or frequently try to have some goal, some point, in mind before starting off that tends to keep me on the “straight and narrow” – more or less. The benefits of feedback. When I went back to school as a “mature student” I had to write a series of exams, one of which was on English language proficiency which included an essay question or two. Fortunately I had just read an article in, I think, Reader’s Digest on an essay technique called “Point-Reason-Example-Summary”, and which I used to good effect during that test. Seems to be a relatively common method as suggested by this paper from the University of Oregon.

While the technique has its limitations, it also seems to have a useful range of applications - including some posts and comments here.

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Where's MKG, by the way? I miss the old git!

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welch wrote:
Dave wrote:
welch wrote: Dave said:
"You are allowed to say whatever you want. And welch is allowed to make fun of you for being a tedious prolix twat. That's the beauty of free speech."

I was trying to be subtle.
Sorry. He's just so fucking boring.
and fucking creepy too. He's taken to following me in disqus.
Just out of curiousity, how is that terribly different from following your blog posts? Presumably you post - on your blog or others - because you think you have something worthwhile to say. And presumably people follow you - on either or both places - because they agree with you. And that is "creepy"?

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Phil_Giordana_FCD wrote:Where's MKG, by the way? I miss the old git!
Funny - I was wondering the same thing ....

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Steersman wrote:
AndrewV69 wrote: <snip>
Sorry Steers, but your subtle point is lost on me. I am just going to go with this:
Steersman wrote: each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
That works for me.
Ok, but if that works for you, that, apparently, insulting some black person with the epithet "nigger" is insulting all blacks then why doesn't that work for "cunt", that calling one woman a cunt isn't calling every woman a cunt?

That is the meaning of "analogous" - the same principle, the same process, the same relationship is in play in each case. While the neurophysiology of insults - how they work, what physiological processes of pain and pleasure are triggered on hearing or speaking them - may be rather obscure, I don't think it wise or helpful - or skeptical - to throw up our hands and say "cultural biases, cultural imperialism" and to walk away from the problem. And the best way, I think, that I can see, of addressing the problem is through analogies.
What about calling a particular person, "an idiot"?
It seems to me that your 'analogy' approach rapidly disintegrates.

If I call one particular woman an idiot, or one particular black person, does it mean that I am labeling all women or all black people as being stupid or otherwise undesirable?

If not, why not?

Might it have something to do with the consensus meanings we, as a society, apply to words?
'Idiot' (save for more recent SJW 'ableist' interpretations) is not understood to be a 'bad' word that applies to a particular group.

So when we call one person 'idiotic' it does not follow that other people that share some physical similarities (gender or race, for example) will automatically feel likewise targeted.

But not all words function like that. The word nigger is widely interpreted as meaning a disparaging word for all black people. It seems to function in two ways. First, it tells you that the speaker is referring to someone of recent black African descent, and second, it tells you that the speaker considers people of recent black African descent as being inferior to other humans.

If you feel the need to discount "cultural biases" - presumably meaning what the word is understood to mean in a particular society - then there is no need proceeding with the discussion. You've leapt into a post modernistic personal interpretation of 'meaning' and so any word or label can mean, humpty-dumpty-wise, whatever you want it to.
And if we are really talking about what words mean, you've simply insulated yourself completely from the forces of logic.

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Gumby wrote:
If you care, here's the relevant clip. (Spoiler for anyone who hasn't seen the movie but might want to.)
I am not a doctor, nor do I play one on TV, but something tells me that surgery would require more than slicing open her abdomen, grabbing the alien out with a pair of giant forceps, then stapling her back together. I don't know, maybe that was part of the anti-science discussed on the panel. If not, it should have been.

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Oh, spoiler alert.

Better late than never?

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Hemisphere wrote:I personally don't find Wonderist's posts to be particularly annoying. Instead, I find many of them interesting. Though they might not be filled with dazzling wit, it is nice to occasionally read a post that isn't just someone telling someone else to fuck off in a humorous manner. I don't always agree with him, just like I don't always agree with most of you, but I appreciate the effort he takes to make his points as clear as possible (something Steersman does as well). ....
Thanks. Definitely a challenge, although an interesting one, to lay out a case, a chain of argument. I’m definitely a dilettante or a neophyte in the art but, as I mentioned a post or two ago, I’ve found the “point-reason-example-summary” technique to be a useful one.

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Re: Shall Mr Vacula Make a Misstep in the Capital of Eire?

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Hunt wrote:
Gumby wrote:
If you care, here's the relevant clip. (Spoiler for anyone who hasn't seen the movie but might want to.)
I am not a doctor, nor do I play one on TV, but something tells me that surgery would require more than slicing open her abdomen, grabbing the alien out with a pair of giant forceps, then stapling her back together. I don't know, maybe that was part of the anti-science discussed on the panel. If not, it should have been.
There were lots of really obvious scientific mistakes in the movie - not high level stuff, they were the kind of things that the average science nerd could spot (for example they mentioned lethal levels of carbon dioxide which weren't anything like lethal - although they would have been with carbon monoxide.)
They also got the distances in space wildly wrong (I think at one point they mentioned something about their distance from the Earth but the figure they used would have placed them well inside the inner solar system, not across the other side of the galaxy.
You can forgive one or two mistakes like these in a complicated movie but the number of simple errors in Prometheus makes it clear that they had either not got any science input whatsoever, or the input they had received was simply ignored.
Most of the mistakes could have been easily corrected with a substitution of a word here or there in the script, and some, like that abortion scene, probably needed a better explanation (slicing the abdominal muscles and stapling them back together isn't going to allow you to walk unless something else happens to knit the tissue back to working order - that needs to be explained, otherwise Noomi is running around in an impossible way.)

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