Apples wrote:Steersman wrote:I’ve certainly found several occasions where “cunt†and “twat†are applicable – Zvan, Sally Strange, Jadehawk, CaitieCat for examples – but not too many for “nigger†or “faggotâ€. Although Crommunist and “Josh, Official Spokesgay†are pushing the limits.
:? Ruh-roh. I guess we'd better hope they don't cross your rubicon. I think you're missing the point, which you quoted below.
Maybe, but if so then maybe because it’s not easy to follow the inferences and logic and intentions associated with the various uses of different types of insults.
Apples wrote:Steersman wrote:Apples wrote:"Faggot" hasn't been used to refer to a particular unpleasant gay person among all those gay people you think are cool. These words have predominantly been used as tools of universal insult by bigots.
“Predominantly†is, I think, the nub of the matter. Seems there are more than a few misogynists who use gender insults in a universal context – “bitches ain’t shit†for example. Why context matters.
So ... you're not inclined to explicitly dispute my suggestion about historical and predominant usage in the case of racial and homophobic slurs, but you hint that you're tempted to use them when a black or gay person makes you really mad -- because ... why?
Good questions. But largely because of the
analogy that I’ve spent some effort trying to elucidate here and various other places: “cunt†is to a charge of misogyny as “nigger†is to a charge of racist. That is, if “cunt†isn’t misogynistic then “nigger†isn’t racist.
OR, if “nigger†is racist then “cunt†is misogynistic. Can’t have your cake and eat it too. And all of that is predicated, I think, on the fact, the common relationship – as described in some detail in the Wikipedia article above, that each epithet entails or is based on a pejorative association with a physiological feature.
And while you might think that the “historical and predominant usage†is sufficient justification for concluding that those words are “racial and homophobic slurs†– i.e., applicable to all members of the classes blacks, and homosexuals – it seems to me that Myers, Benson, Carrier, and others use the same argument that you are using to anathematize not “nigger†and “faggotâ€, but “cuntâ€, “twatâ€, “prickâ€, and, in the view of at least some (to their credit), “assholeâ€. And, absent some credible reason from you why that argument of yours shouldn’t also apply to that last set of words of theirs, one is almost forced to conclude that you’re engaging in some
special pleading, in “stacking the deckâ€.
As for my own temptations to use those words, that is largely because I go with the first of the two alternatives suggested by that analogy – i.e., “cunt†is not necessarily misogynistic
AND “nigger†is not necessarily racist. And that is partly predicated on the fact that at least the “gendered†insults – cunt and prick in particular – express some significant and elevated degree of opprobrium that may have some use when some people cross one Rubicon or another. And while the analogous cases for “nigger†and “faggot†aren’t as clear-cut as are the gendered ones, I still think an argument could be made that they might be appropriate if some people were to claim more credit, more swag, for their race or sexual proclivities than was justified.
Apples wrote:As for something like "bitches ain't shit," I'd wonder how many times you've heard anyone say such a thing sincerely, outside of a rap song. I never have, other than as a mantra among Pharyngulites stuffing words into the mouths of strawmen.
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Seems to be a relatively popular phrase, although it is of course moot whether the song came first or whether it was merely the reflection of a common attitude prevalent at the time the song was written. Which then raises the question, which I failed to consider in my previous comment - mea culpa, as to whether that attitude is typically or commonly applied to all women or just to that percentage who happen to be, as the
dictionary has it, “malicious, unpleasant, and selfishâ€. And while the former use could quite reasonably be construed as misogynistic, the latter only qualifies being rude and crude. But, as with the other insults, rude and crude may have some justifications, particularly where one wants to get the attention, fairly or not, of someone else who is being particularly obnoxious or difficult.