Sunder wrote:There's something that just feels dishonest when you see the huge disconnect between how someone acts online and how they act in real life.
I think we all do that to a degree and it's pretty obvious that when you look at the worst-behaved people online that almost none of them could get through an actual life acting the way they do.
But still when you watch someone like PZ be a milksop in public and a tinpot dictator in his safe spaces, it's just really irritating even beyond the fact that he's a contemptible, smug, self-righteous dipshit.
Then you look at the surviving Horsemen whose public, professional, and online personas are all in sync and it's just refreshing.
That's a hard one to really call. Because what you see online isn't the whole person. Due to the fact that you have to actively choose what to put online, you're only seeing a specific, deliberately chosen subset of the person. So are they different, or just more? I mean, people are actually surprised that I'm not *just* who they see online, and they start telling me how i'm different or fronting, and I then have to disabuse them of that notion, because I'm not a completely different person IRL as opposed to online. It's just that IRL, you get more of the entire picture, including the casual, spontaneous stuff that doesn't get filtered between brain and keyboard.
That applies to really, everyone. Everyone on this forum, twitter, wherever is always making a deliberate choice in what they share, elevating some things, culling others.
What pisses me off about PZ is that barring specific setups, he won't criticize ANYONE directly. The Frogurt dude's a great example. PZ was RIGHT THERE. He could have, like someone eventually did, just walked in, and politely asked the guy "Yo, dude, what's up with the sign. Seems a little harsh." Not starting a fight, not raging, but just talking to the guy.
He did...nothing. Until he got back to Morris and then it was all Big Daddy Thundercock, eating lightning and shitting thunder and what a fucking badass, and FUCK HIM INTO THE GROUND.
PZ, and a lot of the FTBers do this over and over and over. They say nothing to anyone directly, but then when they feel safe over distance, then the knives come out.
That's not "there's more to PZ than his online writing", that's "PZ is just a fucking cowardly bully."