Well, you're a better class of house-husband than my husband, who I keep catching buying clothes and shoes and who's never painted a room in his life. He's lost his credit card privileges a few times. -.-Guest wrote:Me, if I had to push papers, dig ditches, and deal with office politics for a living, I'd go crazy. (and ftr, I already tried those things). I rather enjoy being a full time parent. It's very fulfilling for me. I am also a man.Scented Nectar wrote:Me too. I would be certifiably insane before the first day was finished.rayshul wrote:On the other hand you couldn't make me stay home to look after a kid if you paid me...
While I'm here and on this topic I just add that a man who stays home and a wife that works is very often a great situation. Firstly, as a man, I can do things like mow the lawn, change the oil in the car, paint the interior rooms, etc, in addition to the standard house keeping and tending to children. I am also very cheap. I don't buy 100 pairs of shoes or spend thousands of dollars on cosmetics. I don't buy fancy clothes, etc. For my wife, since she's a woman, she's not really expected to stay at work late, or go in early. She's not expected to tackle physical or dangerous jobs. She also has the benefit of sort of being the last person her company would want to fire because of sexism and ageism concerns.
Just figured I say something more than, "but wait! what about me!?!?!". And a few posters sort of seemed interesed in the stay at home dad thing.
There seems to be a huge divide between women that I know over the women-with-house-husbands/women-who-don't-want-children, who confide that they think men are probably better suited for raising kids, and women-who-don't-have-house-husbands, who are surprised by the idea that a heck of a lot of men raise kids and actually seem to do quite well at it. I'm probably of the mind that men are better at it - but that's just my opinion, I'm sure it's very dependent on the couple. And I'm sure there's class issues in there as well.